It's not me, it's you

It is the first day of a fresh new year.  Typically we tend to make New Year’s Resolutions; there are the old standbys like a new diet, quitting smoking or drinking, exercising more, finding God…so it is no surprise that circling on Facebook was an article about “3o things to stop doing to yourself”.  The first suggestion was to “stop spending time with the wrong people”.  Finally, we are going against the old cliché “it’s not you, it’s me”; now we are saying “it’s not me, it’s you”.  I like to think I was ahead of the curve on this one.